QUOTE (PensionDesign @ Nov 2 2006, 10:16 AM)

i figure that in order for you to be able to do this, there have to be some sort of rules. anyone know them?
First, your plan has to allow the purchase of insurance. Second, if allowed, the insurance must be considered "incidental" to the plan's retirement benefits. Generally speaking insurance premiums are incidental if they are less than 50% of company contributions if applied to a whole life policy or less than 25% if term insurance is purchased.
QUOTE (PensionDesign @ Nov 2 2006, 10:16 AM)

also, how would i go about finding out whether or not you can pay other bills with your 401(k) money.
You cannot generally use your retiremnet fund in this manner. However, if the plan allows loans, you may be able to take a loan to pay other bills. Hardship distributions or in-service distributions, if available, may give you some access to your benefits, but there are also tax consequences.
I would recommend you review the Summary Plan Description of your 401(k) plan and consult with your accountant before making any specific decision.